I hadn’t talked to him in over a week. I had been thinking of calling him today, and then he reached out and texted me “hiya :)” so I called him back. We talked for a couple hours.
He sounds healthier than ever. I am mad that I don’t get to experience the new man he is becoming. He apologized again for the years of verbal abuse. He’s simply not angry like that anymore… Lucky me …. I had to live with all that anger, but SHE gets a happy healthier boyfriend.
We got all caught up with lives and financial issues. Then I wanted to know the dirty details of his incestuous band, and I got them. I knew it was dangerous to ask, because I don’t really want to hear the answers.
He told me they are back to “dating” again, and it hurt me far more than I expected it to.
Next time I won’t ask.